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Social Media Is Based On Mafia Mentality
As I see that title I am now wondering how I can now justify it, but let me give it a go.
Firstly, let’s rid your mind of the romanticised stereotypical view of the Mafia; so that means you have to forget about horses heads in beds and machine guns outside of illegal underground casinos. You also need to rid your mind of anything criminal in fact, for my argument to work. So forgot about baseball bats and Las Vegas sand and lime too.
No, what I am talking about here is a mentality that, and we’ve all experienced this first hand, of something bigger and better, something worth much more than money, where money may actually be the by-product of the system.
The system of favours
The movement (loosely organised, and part of Folksonomy) of social media works by providing services that people want, typically information, or a bloody Dig, or a comment here and there, or something much bigger such as brand loyalty! People naturally migrate to providers and connectors of information and when and IF profit is made it is born out of a good relationship of those services and word of mouth endorsements.
If I help you in some way we have started to build a relationship, I have provided for you, without charge, something you want or need. In return you also provide for me or someone else in the social media family. This generosity is what builds trust, it is the currency of the movement.
If you assume money is the driver in this, you do not get the point, money will taint and in fact cheapen the exchange, the relationship. As I said money is a by-product of the favours and money WILL come if you play the game and focus on the exchange and relationships.
As an experiment (well and a bit of fun) I have now started another Facebook Page, called the Social Media Mafia (*update). this is an invite only group (you are free to request entry), where the members will have to have a “sit down” to approve newbies. The Family also now has an associated Social Media Mafia Website which the members will “take care of” very soon.
I'm chuckling a lot here :))
So, do you understand what I am trying to connect? Please tell me your thoughts.
Update: 30.05.08 I changed the Facebook link to point to a Page rather than group.
Chris Hambly






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an offer I can't refuse
good thinking lad, this one is going to run and run and quite a lot of fun to be had too, I bet :P
new workforce
I wonder what you think about the new roles that are going to have to be developed in order to aggregate and filter all the social media generating valuable information which companies previously had to invest in employees to gain?
https://blogs.guardian.co.uk/money/2008/02/its_all_about_the_connections...
I just read my post back and
I just read my post back and it needs some punctuation and some more words of explanation - sorry - it reads like a drunk ramble.
How it should read is:
I wonder what you think about the new roles that are going to have to be developed in order to aggregate and filter this social media? This media is generating valuable information which companies previously had to invest in employees to gain and now, if they are able to manage the flow of content, can utilise this knowledge for 'free'. The key here of course is managing the content.
https://blogs.guardian.co.uk/money/2008/02/its_all_about_the_connections...
Connections
I'll post this over on your blog also, though ONE of the keys, of which we are talking about, IS content mangement, editorial control. Having the conversation in two places is not good generally.
Certainly “connectors” have been around since the dawn of time, ok so Cesare, Churchill or Don Siciliana just did things a little more “closed”, but conceptually it’s the same.
The new industry is already upon us, I’ve been approached by agencies personally seeking assistance to source talent, due to my connections, apparent on LinkedIn for example. This IS already happening, the new industry has begun, it just has newer funky titles and a shift in the senior management thought process.
I think the most common term currently is Community Developer, or Social Media Guru. – replacing titles like head of communications etc. The essential difference here is now companies need to be 2 way proactive, rather than just the typical "we are so good because" 1 way stream.
Mafia is in the air
Hi Chris,
being an experienced Italian and digger I have to agree on the comparison you made.
Mafia is indeed about exchanging favors.
I also agree with the fact that it is not about money but control.
By helping you I have you in control and I keep the control over the system.
That's why the same old folks make the digg homepage.
Good post and good luck with your project
Julius
Si!
I like this and think it slots right into the "Gift economy" notion but adds to it with the viral nature of it all - "any friend of yous is a friend of mine" type stuff. Rheingold is good on this in "Virtual Communities" (Gift economy) and "Smart Mobs" for the networking/social media stuff but I'm still a tad disappointed that we've got to get rid of the two body coffin (supposedly invented by Joey Bananas). I think (and this is influenced by trying to explain SNS to students who use Facebook but are not sure why) I still need to understand what we're actually doing with it all. I suppose I'm one of those terrible pragmatists who can enjoy FB and blogging and twittering and all the other stuff but can't see any practical purpose beyond doing it.
Mafia
Does this make you the blogfather?
It is actually a very good analogy. Some communities feel very much like a "family" ... there is a lot of self-regulation and self-organising. There are many unwritten codes. But in some ways it can also be hard to "break in".
Agree absolutely re your
Agree absolutely re your hypothesis, its well recorded in several socio-biological studies of how groups work. Sad thing is, to join your Mafia I have to join the Facebook mafia too :(
Excellent post Chris and an
Excellent post Chris and an intruiging initiative!
I think you're right, there are a lot of parallels between the social media space and La Cosa Nostra, particularly in the trading of favours, and how being a "made guy" (i.e. a well connected social media player) seems to open doors that would otherwise be closed.
But it begs the question, if this is a mafia, who's the boss? ;o)
many bosses
I don't see it as very different to the way the mafia operates, and just as there are many mafia families, there exists many Social Media Mafia families too, each with a boss (or leader dynamic).
I think there are natural leaders and those people tend to have clans. It's human nature to want a leader too.
What I'm interested in is having this type of social media mafia structure for business purposes, naturally business needs structures.
And of course it's bloody great fun!
Capo Regime
By the way you are Capo Regime "Mikey 12 Casts"
"Mikey 12-casts"... I like
"Mikey 12-casts"... I like that!
Such a cool idea! In this
Such a cool idea! In this corrupt, capitalist, materialistic world, to make genuine contacts would be wicked. Money is nice but genuine relationships are better. If everyone helped each other out for the love of what they are doing instead of the profit they make at the end of it the world would be a happier place. Hats off to the Ideas man!!!!!
Brilliant idea
I think that this is truly the most progressive idea I've heard in years...excellent idea, and I'm very excited about it. You're way ahead of your time sir.
Mafia Mentality
So you think it’s not about the money, eh?
So you think the average Family Boss is benevolent enough to return every favor proffered simply based on some code of honor?
Make no mistake, Mafia Management is bottom line oriented and operates on the basic tenets of fear, protection and favors—for money.
The Black Hand, as The Mafia was originally known in America, was formed by downtrodden Italian immigrants with a representation vacuum. A system ported from the old country where getting things done was all about who ya know, and favors were dished out to those who had something to offer in return.
If the Mafia does you a favor, you can bet your ass one day, they WILL knock on your door for that return favor, often a piece of dirty work that renders the doer disposable.
So what we should be asking ourselves is, how do we export the best practices of the Mafia Mentality while shedding the negative motivation that greases the wheels of the current system?
Otherwise, Don Hambly, you’ll be looking over your shoulder from this day forward because anybody who knows the Mafia knows that once you’re in, there’s only one way out.
Donny “Blue Eyes” Lafferty
Philly
Like a Mafia?
I am not sure if you are a true fan of "mafia" as mentality and you don't dare saying something wrong about them, or you simply have missunderstood the whole mafia story. A "favor" from a mafia is a "trap" for you. Simple, plain and clean. Should I understand that if you do me a favor I am in trap and if I don't return that favor something bad should happen? ;)
Actually when I first saw the headline I was more thinking about something "Building respect rather then money" but I guess I thought wrong ;) anyway I need to see better whats kicking here.